Mindset in the Messy Middle: How I’m Staying Grounded through Breast Cancer

Mindset isn’t about being strong all the time — it’s about staying present enough to choose your next step, even in the middle of the mess.

Back in March, I was diagnosed with breast cancer.

In May, I had a double mastectomy.

And as of today — I’m still healing. Still a patient. Still navigating all the physical, emotional, and mental layers of recovery.

In this episode of The Next ChaptHER, I’m not speaking from the “other side.”

I’m sharing the mindset tools I’m using right now — in real time — to stay grounded when my nervous system wants to spin out.

This is for any woman navigating her own version of the messy middle — whether it’s health, identity, burnout, loss, or transition.

You’ll hear:

• What it really looks like to regulate your mindset during uncertainty
  
  
• How I use music, breath, humor, and intentional rituals to stay grounded
  
  
• The difference between feeling your feelings vs. living in victim mode
  
  
• Why I start all my clients with the ELI Lifestyle & Mindset Assessment
  
  
• How mindset work doesn’t erase fear — it gives you tools to move through it
  
  

Plus, I share real moments from my journey as I actively work to stay grounded and in control.

If you’ve ever said, “This sucks… why me?” — and then wondered how to keep going anyway — this episode is for you.

🔗 Links & Resources:

🧠 Explore your own mindset lens:

Lifestyle & Mindset Assessment: Your Roadmap Back to J.O.Y.

📝 Follow my raw, behind-the-scenes healing journey on Substack:

The Next ChaptHER on Substack

🎧 Listen to the playlists that helped me regulate during this season:

• These Girls Are For Fighting
• Zen AF - These Girls Are For Fighting

📩 Let this episode be your reminder: you are not powerless. Even in the hardest chapters, you still get to choose your lens.

Thanks for being here — and walking this road with me.